1.) "Just The Way You Are (Remix)" - Bruno Mars feat. Lupe Fiasco
S.B.N.P. blog combines unique perspectives on music, entertainment, fashion and various lifestyles for review and critique. Not only do we project our own opinions, our likes and dislikes, but we strive to remain current in our aims to present the latest trends and hottest acts with a dedication to maintaining a sexy mindset and a strictly business persona. Be Beautiful. Be Unique. Be Strictly Business.
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September 29, 2010
Press Play...No One Man Should Have All This...Music.
1.) "Just The Way You Are (Remix)" - Bruno Mars feat. Lupe Fiasco
September 28, 2010
Strictly Truth...Talent: Just Throw It In The Bag?
September 27, 2010
Mixtape Monday...The Eyes Reveal - Spotlight: Dallas, TX.
September 24, 2010
Fresh Friday ... Fall Into Fresh
September 17, 2010
Fresh Friday...Shoe Time.
September 15, 2010
Strictly Truth ... Oh You Fancy Huh? Pt. II.
So, why is it that these powerful men still settle for the video vixens, strippers and DE-pendant women in their industry and throughout? What makes our ambition any less desirable in real life, as opposed to when it is embedded in the hook of a chart-topping single?
At one time, in times when I honestly thought I knew more than what I actually did, a response could have been crafted that could spark a firestorm, an uprising, or anything else that would have constituted excitement, enthusiasm, or maybe even just messy. These days, life has slowed things down for me, and with that, when I read this question, the same answer came back to me over and over again: these “powerful” men in question are more than willing to look for convenience rather than the women they praise in song and verse. Allow me to elaborate.
While I do this, keep in mind this is merely my opinion, and one that certainly will not resonate within all men, or even a majority of men. These “powerful” men realize what it takes to have a woman who they hold in high esteem, and while I don’t question the sincerity in their words, it does serve as a head-scratcher when certain women see these same men with women who are the opposite of what they sing, rap, and harmonize about. At the same time, this is something that any independent woman, in my opinion, really shouldn’t worry about too much. Your ambition is just as desirable in real life as in song, and, if anything, “powerful” men know they can’t just walk up on you, flash some money, their car, or any other tangible object, and expect you to bite.
They know in order to get you, they have to come with their A-game. They have to be attentive, show interest, be creative, be consistent, and work. When you see a “powerful” man out and about with a woman who is the opposite, it’s usually at some social event (awards shows, sports events, etc), and they would rather be seen with a female they don’t have to work hard to get, but looks the part, as opposed to the female they have to work their butt off for, but STILL looks the part. It’s not a knock on independent women at all, and, if anything, it saves you plenty of heartache, headache, angry Facebook messages, scorned tweets, rants, and anything else that’s counter-productive to your well-being.
There may be a fear from women who “have their own” being the same ones “who sleep alone,” but they are also the same ones who are held, at least in my eyes and others who feel similar, as the epitome of a woman, a queen, and someone who is more than ideal for a man to settle down with, once a man decides to settle down for good. That’s why as long as a woman continues to handle her business, she shouldn’t be concerned about what any man has to say about her, or when “powerful” men are choosing M&Ms over an Everlasting Gobstopper. When you see these cats out on the red carpet with a female who chose a different grind to the top, smile at them, and continue to do you, and realize that your path is a path that’s unique, and void of any man’s assistance except God’s.
-K. Masenda
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September 8, 2010
Press Play ... Let It Ride.
Ms. E. is back with more dope for your ears. A great friend of mine is helping me bring the music to you in a better way, Chan-Lo.com will be packed full of goodies. However, for now peep the playlist, download the tracks, and transport to a happy place.
September 7, 2010
COMING SOON - www.Chan-Lo.com
AYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY! Ladies and Gentlemen, the splash page is officially up for Chan-Lo.com and I am beyond ecstatic. It's taken quite some time but, it looks like things are moving forward rather quickly. Much love to Ashley Nguyen for the work she is putting in.
September 3, 2010
Fresh Friday ... Laid Up.
Men's Paint Ball Tee - $30.00
September 2, 2010
Press Play - Artists You Know. Music You Don't.
Hello, again, my fellow music lovers! Check out my second playlist installment, full of the latest and greatest from today’s hottest artists. Enjoy! J
1) “Monster” Kanye West feat. Jay-Z, Nicki Minaj & Rick Ross
Dope. The beat is a Yeezy best. Intricate. New. Uncharted. Love it. However, I hate to say it, but Kanye was upstaged on his own record. Ms. Minaj does the damn thing! Take a listen.
2) “Wake Up Everybody” - John Legend feat. The Roots and Melanie Fiona
I love this, because the lyrical message conveyed through this record is so much more inspiring then any beat could ever be. Listen close. Be the change.
3) “You Just Need Me” - Trey Songz
Trey demonstrates versatility with this track, which is yet another leak off his forthcoming Passion, Pain, & Pleasure album (9/14/10). He incorporates some Euro energy into this record, but still keeps his traditional style throughout. If you’re like me and you can’t get enough of Mr. Songz, check out “Doorbell” and “Alone”, as well.
4) “Love ‘Em All” - Usher
Every record on Usher’s newly released Versus album is bomb, but this is one that gets my highest recommendation. Do yourself a favor and peep the whole disc.
5) “You Be Killin’ Em” - Fabolous
Fabo did his thaaanggg! Rhymes are there. Beat is there. Two thumbs up.
7) “Bottomz Up (Remix)” - Trey Songz feat. Gucci Mane & Wiz Khalifa
Different beat from it’s original, but I like the feel of this record. Gucci and Wiz give it a little extra twist of testosterone.
8) “Loving You No More” - Dirty Money feat. Drake
Drizzy’s verse goes extra hard, but the whole track is good look for Diddy and his Dirty Money crew. Dawn really shines with her vocals. Check it out.
*Chan.Lo. Note: Seems like Diddy is getting more play on the record however, the chorus and his verses are incredibly catchy. This may be another breakthrough single for the DM peeps.
9) “Make a Movie” - Twista feat. Chris Brown
They don’t call him “Mista Tongue Twista” for nothing. The man delivers on this record, in a big way. I am a fan of the Breezy collabo, as well. I feel a new record coming on…
10) “I’m Ready for You” - Drake
This track is just a demo. Beat is dope, though. Whoever picks it up will have a hit on their hands. Certainly worth the early listen.
11) “Movie Night” - Jesse Idol
Jesse is an up-and-coming artist, but this track is too smooth not to mention. Be on the look out for this young man. Bright future ahead!
Worth The Mention:
"Mama" - Lyfe Jennings feat. Anthony Hamilton
"What Up" - Pimp C feat. Drake and Bun B
Happy downloading!!
Until next time,